Jeremiah—
6 Then I said, “Ah, Lord God! Behold, I do not know how to speak, for I am only a youth.” 7 But the Lord said to me,
“Do not say, ‘I am only a youth’;
for to all to whom I send you, you shall go,
and whatever I command you, you shall speak.
8 Do not be afraid of them,
for I am with you to deliver you,
declares the Lord.”
There are lots of problems with believing in a specific calling. Unless you audibly hear directly from God it is hard to determine what is God’s call on your life and what you just think would be a good thing to do. There are so many things out there to do, so many people out there to minister to. How do we know what our calling is?
How big is your calling? Is it big enough God has to be involved? If not, it’s probably not your calling, it’s probably what you want to do. You don’t find a lot of examples in the Bible of times when God showed up and called people to live a comfortable life where they are called to reach their one friend in math class. If you think that is your calling, what you were set apart for, then your view of God is too small. That might be part of it, that might be the start of it even, but that is not the whole thing.
Are you scared of your calling? Jeremiah was. There are lots of examples of people who resisted their calling because of the magnitude. That might be a clue that it is indeed God calling you. If it makes you uncomfortable when you think about it, that is usually a good clue.
But look out!
Jeremiah 17:9
The heart is deceitful above all things,
and desperately sick;
who can understand it?
There have been a lot more people who somehow feel like God is calling them to minister to rich people then poor people. There are more people that feel called to lead and be on stage then who want to follow and serve.
The heart has a way of tricking us and talking us into all sorts of things. It’s even more challenging to decipher between our sinful hearts and God’s calling when the options all seem like things that are good.
There is usually a difference between Godly calling and doing good things. Godly calling is fueled by God’s ambition to glorify Himself and it born in the heart of God. Our goals and ambitions are often cluttered with our own ambition and are born in our own heart.
It is hard to tell the difference sometimes, go with the one that gives God glory and keeps you out of the picture, that is the one that is God’s calling.
Be careful to make sure that you are following a calling, not just being driven to accomplish something good. A driven man is consumed with his own needs and desires. A called man is committed to God more then anything else. A driven man is ambitious and driven not only to succeed but to be considered successful.. A called man is only worried about obedience.
Driven men measure their success based on the outcome, called men measure their success based on their obedience and nothing else.
We are not tempted to do bad things as much as we are tempted to try things God has not called us to do.
—Richard Exley
One of the hard things to manage when you are trying to figure out God’s calling is just that. Do we end up taking a compilation of things that God has called other people to do and mash them together into something we like or are passionate about?
One of the dangers of following a call is pursuing a calling that is good, just not God’s. The other danger of following a call is pursuing a calling that is good, just not yours.
God set YOU apart for HIS plan.
Some questions to ask yourself:
Is there a certain person or group you feel God is calling you to reach?
Are certain people or groups drawn to you?
Do you know what God is calling you to do but are making excuses as to why you can’t do it?
Is your calling God sized, or you sized?
Is your calling specific to you, or are you stealing someone else’s calling?
Pray that God will show you HIS call for YOUR life.